I’m sorry
for not writing in my blog yesterday, it was busy, stressful, and I needed to
think some things through. I was hit
hard with an emotional bat on Saturday, and I’m still hurt and upset by it.
Saturday we
had dinner with his dad. His girlfriend,
and my fiancé’s sister and her husband were there too, but I always enjoy their
company. But his dad…
My fiancé is
very vocal about his weight loss, and very proud of what he’s lost so far
(20lbs). I’m very proud of him too,
don’t get me wrong! My fiancé likes to
bring up his weight loss any chance he gets, and likes to go all into how he’s
working at the gym 2-3 times a week, and wanting to increase it to 4-5 times a
week. What he fails to mention is that
his eating habits are terrible, and there are several days where he doesn’t go
to the gym. So his dad, naturally, is
very proud of his son because he doesn’t see the bad things! His sister then chimes in how she spent an
hour on the elliptical today, and he was even happier!
Then he
turns to me and asks “are you going to the gym?”
As soon as I
say “no”, his face gets this angry-disappointed look, and he turns to talk to
his girlfriend. I barely get the chance
to say I’m working out on the elliptical at my parents 3 times a week before he
pretty much ignores me. I don’t tell him
about the Wii Fit, I don’t tell him about my walks, and I don’t tell him that I
also have lost 20lbs (in the same amount of time as my fiancé, who is both
heavier and a guy).
The worst
part wasn’t the fact that he couldn’t see the almost 10% loss…he’ll see my
weight loss eventually. It wasn’t even
that he overlooked my fiance’s order of the Admiral’s Feast (which is over
1,000 calories) and eyed my grilled salmon with two orders of broccoli like it
was a 5-layer chocolate cake. The worst
part was that he literally seemed like he wanted nothing to do with me the rest
of the night, and I had to pretend everything was fine while I felt like a
complete outsider. He was polite, but I
didn’t feel like part of the family.
I don’t know
why this is getting to me…I don’t think it was intentional, in fact I doubt he
even realized he did it. He is a very
gruff man, so he displays anger and disappointment and frustration more than he
expresses happiness or contentment. It
just hurts.
Raiding
Obesity
7/29/13-204.3
(Start Fight!)
7/30/13-202.9
(Me: Stab)
7/31/13-202.7
(Me: Stab)
8/1/13-202.7
(Boss: Stall Time)
8/2/13-201.0
(Me: Stab)
8/3/13-202.4
(Boss: Self-Heal)
8/4/13-200.4*
(Me: Stab, Bubble!)
8/5/13-201.5
(Boss: Self-Heal)
*I’m taking
this weight with a grain of salt…I had to use my parent’s scale, and when I
tested it with a hand weight to check for accuracy, the number was off.
So last week
was a lot better than the previous week weight-wise, but emotionally it was
rough. I’d like to see myself in
ONEderland by next Monday, if possible.
It’s super hard right now because I desperately want things that are not
in my diet plan, like 5 Guys, Popeye’s, and greasy, high-fat fried food. It’s getting harder and hard to decline these
things, especially when my fiancé is bringing them into the apartment for
himself. Just an hour ago he waved a
Popeye’s biscuit under my nose and was taunting me with it…was so pissed.
Food Diary
for 8/3/13:
1 Dannon
Light & Fir Greek Srawberry-80 calories
1 Red Lobster Grilled Half-Portion Salmon with extra broccoli-310 calories
1 Red Lobster Grilled Half-Portion Salmon with extra broccoli-310 calories
1 Red Lobster
Caesar Saladwith 0.5 oz dressing-100 calories
2 Scrambled
Eggs-140 calories
2 Tbls
Salsa-9 calories
Pinch of
shredded cheddar-45 calories
1 Grande
Skinny Cinnamon dolce Latte-120 calories
1 5oz Sutter
Home Pink Moscato Wine-135 calories
Total
Calories-939
I didn’t do
any additional exercise, though I tried to get in as much walking as possible,
so the fitbit didn’t adjust any additional calories.
Yesterday I
cast Bubble, so I didn’t count calories but kept an eye on portions. I felt I did pretty good, I didn’t gorge
myself on anything. I started with a
banana, had some chips with salsa and cheese cubes, had a medium sized filet
mignon (about 6-7oz) with a spoonful of red-skinned potato salad and some
watermelon. I did make brownies, and had
one of those (although unlike my other family members I did not get whipped
cream), and had some butter toffee almonds when I got home. But I think it would fall within 1200
calories.
I did work
out yesterday, but like the title of the post, I was just going through the
motions. Sure I did the hour on the
elliptical, but I am not sure if I got my heart rate above 140, and I wasn’t
going as fast or as determinedly as I would if I truly cared.
Music
Addition
I’ve had
this song in my head all weekend, and now you will too. You see, when I heard it, I knew I’d heard
the music before, but couldn’t place it.
Then Saturday Night it came to me…it was a musical score from a
movie! So without further ado, Sail by
AWOLNATION, which sounds a lot like the theme from Last of the Mohicans (which
I also included so you can also compare the two!)
And...
Enjoy!
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ReplyDeleteI just wanted to say hi, from one gamer to another! I haven't played WoW in awhile - I've been on SWTOR for over a year. I came across a post of yours on 3FC and just clicked on your blog link, so wanted to say hi! =)
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ReplyDeleteHello Kasey =D I hope you enjoy my blog! I'm trying to work more "gamer" into it, lol! I, too, played SWTOR for a while, and enjoyed it greatly (sadly the people I played with stopped playing QQ)
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